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Volume X Issue VII
TO PROCRASTINATE OR NOT
Put yourself in this picture. You're walking between the railroad tracks listening
to a Walkman and for some strange reason you have this urge to look behind.
Your worse nightmares are realized as you see a train bearing down on you!
Impact time is estimated at seven seconds! Chances are you're not a procrastinator.
It's either jump left or jump right. No analysis, no weighing of the options,
no politically correct associations. Instead just like the Nike slogan. "Just do it". Jump!
So why do we procrastinate? There are a host of reasons. Usually fear is the
underlying cause. Fear of failure, the unknown, even of success. It's a word
nobody really wants to have associated with their life. The fact of the
matter is we all do it and yet if done properly it can actually be a good thing.
How so you say? Since all of us have an equal number of hours to work with (24)
and we simply can't do everything, we must procrastinate on some items. The key
to high performers is their ability to selectively procrastinate on the low value
activities to free up time for their goal achieving high value activities.
There are times when deep thought and careful consideration are required in making
key decisions in your life. However, often people get bogged down with " paralysis by analysis" syndrome.
It becomes a great excuse for procrastinating on a decision that requires action.
To help with the procrastination issue I suggest you add the "seven second rule".
Make a decision in seven seconds on the low importance issues. Go with your gut
feeling. It's rarely wrong. Get off the fence in a hurry. You will be amazed at
the internal feeling of control, confidence as your decision making muscle builds with use.
Start today. Be a proud procrastinator! State it to the world, but then
follow-up with a new attitude to mentally delete those low value activities.
P. S. Parents try the "seven second rule" on your kids. State to them " Make a decision
in seven seconds or I'll do it for you!" Watch how quickly they jump off the
fence when they see you follow through and make a couple of decisions for them.
You're actually educating them on the value of making quick decisive decisions.
What about attempting to use the "seven second rule" at work with co-workers
in a non-threatening way. Example "OK, let's agree that have a decision in
two minutes on this issue" and make sure the group holds to this commitment.
Be an active procrastinator starting tomorrow !!!
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